Around Again

I noticed from my side column that some friends from Alphabet Thursday are at it again.  Starting with the letter "A" for the fourth time around.  Wow.  I think I was a first round participant. Time is flying by.

Around.

Life circles and cycles around and around. Makes me think of the old sweet song "Sentimental Lady" by Bob Welch.

Sentimental gentle wind
Blowing through my life again
Sentimental lady
Gentle one
(all I need)
Sentimental gentle wind
Blowing through my life again
Sentimental lady
Gentle one

I guess I am feeling sentimental tonight.  We've just returned home after watching our two youngest boys perform in the musical "Beauty and the Beast." Our oldest, after performing in seven seasons of theatrics, stayed in; preferring to watch the Saturday, closing night show with his girlfriend.

The air has a nip again. The days are getting shorter again.  We left the brightness and energy of the theater and ventured into the enveloping muffled darkness of the night.  Life is sweet and sad all at the same time as it circles around and around again.

Jenny Matlock at ...off on my tangent... hosts Alphabet Thursday.

Alphabet Thursday - Catching Up - A

A is for Asperger's Syndrome.

When he was 7 years old, my oldest son was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome (a disorder falling towards the high-functioning end of the Autism spectrum).

Hans Asperger, and Austrian pediatrician, first described children with certain Autistic-like characteristics in the 1940's; but the diagnosis only came to serious attention in the early 1980's.

It was a caring, experienced 1st grade teacher who first identified our son for evaluation. We had noticed some unique activities in his early childhood - like waving his fingers while running back and forth, engrossed in a wonderful world of borrowed imagination. At times he was also difficult to discipline; because he didn't seem to understand the affects of his actions and could be very immovable.

He fit the description of "the little professor" and even now still loves to gather information whether through listening to adult conversations, pouring over reference books, or searching the internet. Throughout his childhood and adolescence, he has maintained focused and consuming (though changing) interests - everything from cars & trucks to insects, superheros to Star Wars, LOTR, X-men, and now music and language. He does need to be prepared for change (though I believe living overseas has really made him more flexible than most in this area). He has strong opinions and is very rigid in his thinking. He can be quite verbally eloquent and/or destructive on topics he feels strongly about. He loves stage acting because he gets to pretend to be someone else. And he appreciates and likes his own uniqueness.

Tony Atwood is currently one of the recognized leading experts on Asperger's Syndrome. You can find so much more information about this disorder in his book, "The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome" and at his website.

He set up this shot and asked me to take it.

Here is a little teaser for the next letter of the Alphabet....

B is for:

Boys

Well, actually, you might think I would answer this way with the plentiful and wonderful specimens I have ever around me. But I have chosen differently....
You'll just have to wait and see.